dreadpudding:

dreadpudding:

I think a lot of the discourse on here, esp about intra-community issues, comes from the perspective of people who are a part of pretty insular leftist queer communities and assume everyone else engaging w their writing is too. so you have stuff like “white trans people are celebrated when they come out” or “everyone wants to fuck transmasc genderqueer people” as statements people are making, which are very very true in some cases from within these really insular communities but seem like you’re blogging from another dimension to people who like, live in small town Iowa.

I think this is why we get a lot of the tumblr arguments we get. like one person’s like “ask every single person you meet for pronouns no exceptions or you’re a bad person” and someone reading that who isn’t part of an urban leftist queer scene is like??? you want me to as the aggressively homophobic straight men who live in my open carry state for their pronouns?????? but no one wants to add “disclaimer: I go to smith college/live in Montreal/have completely forgotten what fear feels like” to their posts

theawesomeadventurer:

*me coming out as sapiosexual*
Mom…dad… I’m pretentious

birdtouch:

as a person who experienced the hell that was the onceler fandom i really need people to stop saying ‘this will be the new onceler because people really like this character’ like u dont get it. u dont

there will never be a new onceler, the onceler’s strange existence and then immediate crash into “that vague thing we never want to talk about or mention ever again” was an event of it’s time. you cannot recreate the onceler effect. the same way nothing will ever be ‘the new homestuck/homestuck fandom’ there will never be a ‘new onceler’

brownmuva:

you know whats really cute? people who pay attention to you .. i don’t mean in a vain sort of way…but in a “oh half the pizza doesn’t have anchovies bc i remember you saying you don’t like fish” type attention.

cheyennecheyenne:

it’s really cool when you know for sure that your fondness for someone is reciprocated so you don’t have to worry about shit like ‘coming across as thirsty’ or ‘being clingy’ cause that person likes you too!! that person wants to see you often too!! that person likes talking to you a lot too!! so nice

dragongrantaire:

[Softly but with a lot of feeling] fuck

annalikesthings:

arthurconandoyle:

I LOVE THE GREAT MOUSE DETECTIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’M SICK OF DENYING IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE GREAT MOUSE DETECTIVE IS THE ONLY ADAPTATION OF MY WORK THAT TRULY UNDERSTANDS THE CRUCIAL THEMES

#i’m glad this url went to someone who knew what to do with it